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saitainaOne of mum's friends' daughter's was killed.
The
kicker?
It's been a month and none of the family (not even the mother) is
willing to claim the body and bury her. She's still laying there in a freezer,
unawanted by even her mother.
Maybe it's just me, but I would claim the
body of my worst enemy if just to give them the burial all human beings
deserve.
Mum's now upset because she's trying to 'be there' for her
friend but how do you sympathize with someone who can't even stand her own child
enough to burry her.
And now I'm mad at Judy (the friend) because my
mum's a good person, a sweet person whose always there for her friends and when
she said 'what can I do for you" (meaning help her with life until she can 'move
on' enough to go back to daily life), her friend replied "Give me back my
daughter".
I would understand if she actually cared for her daughter, but
if you don't love her, you don't treat your friends like shit in your 'grief'. I
mean, this is the woman who repeatedly, publicly, wished her daughter would die
and meant it.
Ugh. Hate her...HATE.
The
kicker?
It's been a month and none of the family (not even the mother) is
willing to claim the body and bury her. She's still laying there in a freezer,
unawanted by even her mother.
Maybe it's just me, but I would claim the
body of my worst enemy if just to give them the burial all human beings
deserve.
Mum's now upset because she's trying to 'be there' for her
friend but how do you sympathize with someone who can't even stand her own child
enough to burry her.
And now I'm mad at Judy (the friend) because my
mum's a good person, a sweet person whose always there for her friends and when
she said 'what can I do for you" (meaning help her with life until she can 'move
on' enough to go back to daily life), her friend replied "Give me back my
daughter".
I would understand if she actually cared for her daughter, but
if you don't love her, you don't treat your friends like shit in your 'grief'. I
mean, this is the woman who repeatedly, publicly, wished her daughter would die
and meant it.
Ugh. Hate her...HATE.
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Holy...
Date: 2005-09-28 06:27 am (UTC)It's insane.
Points to your mom for sticking through with a friend like that.
Points to you for pointing out her inconsistancies. People like that are just... Ugh.
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Date: 2005-09-28 01:05 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2005-09-28 01:39 pm (UTC)wow that's just horrible. how long are they gonna keep the body in the freezer? I mean do they just burn the bodies if nobodie claimes them or such?
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Date: 2005-09-28 01:43 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2005-09-28 01:46 pm (UTC)One would think even if a child does something that the parents don't agree with, they would at least claim the body if the child passes away :-(
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Date: 2005-09-28 01:50 pm (UTC)My mum topped herself in dumb comments today. She told Judy, "I would never want to go through that," (meaning losing a child)...
Except she did it with me next to her. As her only child I felt it was my duty to inform her, "Neither would I."
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Date: 2005-09-28 01:51 pm (UTC)